Okay, I know that it sounds cheesy that I’m writing a post on cyberbullying, but it’s a serious problem in our everyday society. I want to talk about the real reason of cyberbullying: which no-one knows. Nobody really knows who’s fault it is… because there are multiple suspects.
The Bully
The bully is the main cause of every thing. Usually the ‘popular’ person at school starts it, which makes them the President of the Problem. When they start bullying the person online, other people people follow their bad example and start to bully the person as well. This is called Herding. Like sheep, people tend to follow other peoples’ actions just because it seems like the majority of people they know are doing it as well. So if the popular person starts cyberbullying someone, everyone else will too because they thinks it’s cool or something.
The bully could also be someone who has been bullied before or has been through a really tough time. They feel as if everyone is trying to be mean to them and start being rude for that reason. And other people follow them because they don’t have any proof, and it seems much easier to believe what the bully said than make up their own mind if what the bully said is true or not.
The Victim
The victim should usually be pitied in most circumstances, but I question their judgement. If they’re being bullied by people, they should block everyone who is bullying them. They can go to the police about their situation, and I assure you that the police can trace all the messages back to the bully. Also, the victim could just delete their account on the website/ app and save themselves a lot of trouble. But first and foremost, the victim shouldn’t do anything to cause the bullying to start. They shouldn’t:
1)Post any pictures that would make people call them names.
2)Call anybody any names, no matter what they did. If someone posted a raunchy picture, ignore it. If someone said something mean to them, ignore it and tell someone (preferably an adult) that they trust.
The victim shouldn’t let themselves fall into being bullied so easily. This is what I mean by how it could be the victim’s fault.
The Parents
It could be the parents’ fault for letting their child sign up to websites that could cause them any harm. If they do, they should at least monitor their child’s activity online. And giving children their own phones and not checking on them is dangerous. People say that it would be violating privacy, but his is something serious. There’s nothing wrong to check someone’s phone to see if everything is okay. The best thing to do I think is for parents to get an app like My Mobile Watchdog, so that they can check on their child’s phone and see what’s happening without having to physically take their child’s phone to see what’s been happening. They could just delete messages they don’t want people to see before their parents look at them. Apps like My Moblie Watchdog let parents see the messages their children send and receive and let them see a photo/ video their child is going to send before it’s even sent.
Everybody Else
It’s everybody else’s fault for either taking part in the bullying or doing nothing about it. It’s a sin if you can help to do good but don’t do anything instead. So they should either stop bullying or do something about it. You can help make laws that are against cyberbullying. People do things now because they mightn’t be against the law and feel free to do what they like.
Cyberbullying is serious and people have to do something about it. People commit suicide from being a victim of cyberbullying, so it’s obviously no joke! Also I have a message for the Cyberbullies.
“Everything you post on the internet is saved permanently, so I’d be careful of what I did post on the internet if I were you.”
This isn’t a threat, it’s a fact.